Genesis 45:1-10 NIV – Then Joseph could no longer control himself before all his attendants, and he cried out, “Have everyone leave my presence!” So, there was no one with Joseph when he made himself known to his brothers. And he wept so loudly that the Egyptians heard him, and Pharaoh’s household heart about it.

Joseph said to his brother, “I am Joseph! Is my father still living?” But his brothers were not able to answer him, because they were terrified at his presence.

Then Joseph said to his brothers, “Come close to me.” When they had done so, he said, “I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt! And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. For two years now there has been famine in the land, and for the next five years there will not be plowing and reaping.

“So then, it was not you who sent me here, but God. He made me father to Pharoah, lord of his entire household and ruler of all Egypt. Now hurry back to my father and say to him, ‘This is what your son Joseph says: God has made me lord of all Egypt. Come down to me; don’t delay.’”

Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV – Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forage you.

Hebrews 12:14-15 NIV – Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.

6 Practical Steps in Releasing the Power of a Painful Past

  • Choose to Forgive

Mark 11:25 NIV – “And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”

6 Practical Steps in Releasing the Power of a Painful Past

  • Place Blame Where It Belongs

Matthew 18:15 NIV – “If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.”

6 Practical Steps in Releasing the Power of a Painful Past

  • Release the Right to Retaliate

6 Practical Steps in Releasing the Power of a Painful Past

  • Realize to Forgive Means We Focus on God’s Providence

Genesis 50:20 NIV – But Joseph said to them, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God? You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.”

6 Practical Steps in Releasing the Power of a Painful Past

  • Restore Trust as it is Merited

6 Practical Steps in Releasing the Power of a Painful Past

  • Express Kindness to the Offender

Romans 12:19 NIV – Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.

Verse 21 – Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

“Sometimes we have to let go of the past in order to enjoy the present and dream about the future.”